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In English Help for the Family | Marriage How to Talk About Problems

Talking about problems is not always easy. Sometimes, instead of solving, the conversation can create more tension. This happens because men and women often have different communication styles. What you should know Women: usually prefer to talk about the issue before hearing a solution. Often, simply sharing feelings brings relief. Men: tend to look for quick solutions, because solving makes them feel helpful. Offering an answer is their way of showing support. The key is balance: listen carefully before suggesting any solution. What you can do Husband: practice active listening. Look into her eyes, don’t interrupt, and show you understand. Many times, your wife just needs to feel you are by her side. Wife: explain clearly what you expect. If you only want to be heard, say so. If you want a solution, ask for it. Both: remember that each has different needs. Dialogue improves when both are willing to compromise and understand each other. The right time Choosing the right moment i...

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 🌍 Ku Noolow Adduun Dhibban

Ma ogtahay in dhibaatooyinka caalamiga ah ay maanta nagu culus yihiin in ka badan sidii hore? Meelo badan, dadka waxay la kulmaan xaalado adag sida:

Dagaallo iyo colaado Cudurro iyo faafitaan Masiibooyin dabiici ah Faqri Cunsuriyad Rabshado iyo dembi

Dhibaatooyinkaas waxay ka tagi karaan raadad qoto dheer. Kuwa la kulma musiibooyin badanaa waxay dareemaan naxdin, quus ama xitaa madhnaan shucuureed, sidii inaysan ka jawaabi karin. Laakiin ku sii jiritaanka xaalad la’aan muddo dheer waxay kordhisaa xanuunka.

Xilliyada aan degganayn, waa muhiim in la raadiyo siyaabo lagu ilaaliyo waxa ugu muhiimsan: qoyskaaga, caafimaadkaaga, noloshaada iyo nabadda gudaha.

✨ Maxaad samayn kartaa?

  • Daryeel maskaxda iyo qalbiga: la hadal dadka aad ku kalsoon tahay, hayso rajo iyo iimaan.

  • Ilaali caafimaadka: raac caadooyin caafimaad leh oo fiiro gaar ah u yeelo baahiyaha jirka.

  • Xoojiso xiriirka qoyska: waqti iyo daryeel sii kuwa aad jeceshahay.

  • Raadi nolol kale: la qabsiga isbeddelada iyo raadinta fursado cusub.

  • Ku dhaqaaq is-caawinta: caawinta kuwa kugu dhow waxay sidoo kale adiga ku xoojisaa.

👉 Sidaas darteed, xitaa inta lagu jiro dhibaatooyinka, waxaad yarayn kartaa saameynta xun oo waxaad heli kartaa waddooyin aad ku socoto adigoo leh xoog iyo dheelitirnaan badan.

  • Kobci adkaysiga ruuxiga ah: iimaanku wuxuu noqon karaa isha geesinimo iyo rajo.

  • Baro dhibaatooyinka caalamiga ah: macluumaad la isku halayn karo ayaa kaa caawinaya inaad go’aan fiican gaarto oo aad ka fogaato cabsi ama marin habaabin.

  • Dhis shabakado taageero: saaxiibo, deris iyo bulsho ayaa bixin kara taageero wax ku ool ah iyo mid shucuureed.

  • Qiimee guulaha yaryar: aqoonsiga horumarka maalin kasta, xitaa haddii uu yar yahay, wuxuu caawiyaa ilaalinta niyadda.

  • Qorshee mustaqbalka si xikmad leh: xitaa xilliyada aan degganayn, dejinta yoolal macquul ah waxay keentaa jihada iyo ujeeddo.

✨ Fikirka ugu dambeeya Adduunka wuxuu ku jiraa dhibaato, laakiin qof kasta wuxuu leeyahay awood uu ku doorto sida uu uga jawaabo. Adigoo xoojinaya maskaxdaada, jirkaaga iyo ruuxaaga, ma aha oo kaliya inaad si adag ula kulanto caqabadaha, laakiin sidoo kale waxaad dhiirrigelinaysaa kuwa kale inay helaan rajo iyo dheelitirnaan.

🙏 Inaad Ogaato Ilaah iyo Ku Dhaqanka Xaqiiqda Inta lagu jiro dhibaatooyinka, ma jiro xal bini’aadam oo keeni kara nabad waarta. Kitaabka Quduuska ah wuxuu muujinayaa in nasasho dhab ah ay ka timaado ogaanshaha Ilaah iyo ku noolaanshaha doonistiisa.

Ciise wuxuu yidhi: “Tani waa nolosha weligeed ah: inay ku ogaadaan adiga, Ilaaha runta ah oo keliya, iyo Ciise Masiix oo aad soo dirtay.” — Yooxanaa 17:3

Ku dhaqanka runta: ma aha oo kaliya in la rumaysto; waa in la dabaqo mabaadi’da rabbaaniga ah maalin kasta. “Haddii aad ku sii jirtaan eraygayga, waxaad runtii tihiin xertiayda; waxaadna ogaan doontaan runta, runtaana idin xoreyn doonta.” — Yooxanaa 8:31, 32

Jacaylka Ilaah: kuwa jecel Ilaah waxay raadiyaan inay muujistaan jacaylkaas ficilladooda. “Waayo, tani waa jacaylka Ilaah: inaan xajino amarradiisa.” — 1 Yooxanaa 5:3

👉 Sidaas darteed, ogaanshaha Ilaah iyo ku dhaqanka runta ma aha oo kaliya inay xoojiso iimaanka qofka, laakiin waxay sidoo kale keenaysaa rajo mustaqbal oo aan dhibaato iyo silic jirin.

✨ Gunaanad Xitaa adigoo ku nool adduun dhibaato leh, waxaad heli kartaa nabad dhab ah adigoo Ilaah ugu dhowaanaya oo adeegsanaaya Eraygiisa. Doorashadan waxay muujinaysaa cidda runtii rabta inay jecel Ilaah oo ay ku noolaato runta.

➡️ Maqaalka xiga: Akhri mawduuca xiga halkan:

📝 MAQAALKA 1# Maalin ma heli doonaa cadaalad adduunka? https://psicotercom.blogspot.com/2025/12/maqaalka-1-maalin-ma-heli-doonaa.html


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