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In English Help for the Family | Marriage How to Talk About Problems

Talking about problems is not always easy. Sometimes, instead of solving, the conversation can create more tension. This happens because men and women often have different communication styles. What you should know Women: usually prefer to talk about the issue before hearing a solution. Often, simply sharing feelings brings relief. Men: tend to look for quick solutions, because solving makes them feel helpful. Offering an answer is their way of showing support. The key is balance: listen carefully before suggesting any solution. What you can do Husband: practice active listening. Look into her eyes, don’t interrupt, and show you understand. Many times, your wife just needs to feel you are by her side. Wife: explain clearly what you expect. If you only want to be heard, say so. If you want a solution, ask for it. Both: remember that each has different needs. Dialogue improves when both are willing to compromise and understand each other. The right time Choosing the right moment i...
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HELP FOR THE FAMILY | MARRIAGE – Series 2

What Does the Bible Say About Marriage?

The Purpose of Marriage

From the very beginning of human history, God established marriage as a special union between a man and a woman, designed to bring happiness and stability and to provide the foundation for family life (Genesis 1:27, 28; 2:18, 24).

God’s View of Marriage

  • Marriage is meant to be a permanent union. God expects husband and wife to remain loyal to each other for as long as they live (Mark 10:9).

  • The Bible does not approve of polygamy, same-sex relations, or couples living together without commitment (1 Corinthians 6:9; 1 Thessalonians 4:3).

  • Jesus confirmed that marriage should follow the original pattern set by God (Mark 10:6-8).

Separation and Divorce

  • The Bible encourages couples to resolve their problems rather than separate (1 Corinthians 7:10).

  • The only valid reason for divorce given in Scripture is adultery (Matthew 19:9). If separation or divorce occurs for any other reason, neither partner is free to remarry (Matthew 5:32; 1 Corinthians 7:11).

Civil Marriage and God’s Approval

God expects His servants to respect governmental laws regarding marriage. Registering a marriage legally shows respect for both the authorities and for God, who views marriage as a serious and lasting commitment (Titus 3:1).

Responsibilities in Marriage

  • Both spouses: Husband and wife must treat each other with love, respect, and faithfulness. They should meet each other’s needs and, if they have children, share the responsibility of raising them (Ephesians 5:33; 1 Corinthians 7:3; Hebrews 13:4).

  • Husband: Described as “head of the wife,” he is responsible for guiding the family with love, ensuring their physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, and valuing his wife’s strengths and opinions (Ephesians 5:23; Colossians 3:19; Proverbs 31:11).

  • Wife: She is encouraged to respect her husband’s role, cooperate with him, and support his leadership. The Bible praises wives who fulfill this important role faithfully (Ephesians 5:33; Genesis 2:18; Proverbs 31:10).

Are Children Required?

No. Although God commanded some of His servants in the past to have children (Genesis 1:28; 9:1), this directive does not apply to Christians. Jesus never required His followers to become parents, and the early Christians did not impose this obligation. Having children is a personal decision for each couple.

How the Bible Strengthens Marriage

Biblical principles help couples build strong relationships and overcome challenges by teaching them to:

  • Show genuine love (1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Colossians 3:14)

  • Respect one another (Romans 12:10)

  • Be patient and forgiving (Ephesians 4:2, 3; 1 Peter 4:8)

  • Remain loyal and committed (Mark 10:9; Song of Solomon 8:7)

  • Work together as a team (Ecclesiastes 4:9)

  • Communicate well and listen carefully (James 1:19)

Key Bible Verses About Marriage

  • Proverbs 18:22: “Whoever finds a good wife finds something valuable.”

  • Malachi 2:15: God wants husbands and wives to remain faithful and respectful, even after many years.

  • Mark 10:9: “What God has joined together, let no one separate.”

  • Hebrews 13:4: Marriage should be honored by all.

  • 1 Corinthians 7:28: Marriage brings challenges, but couples can overcome them by working together.

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