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📝🇱🇸 ST (Sesoto – Lesoto) → Bakeng sa Banyalani: Mosebetsi oa Sehlopha Ho bolela'ng?

 



📝 Bakeng sa Banyalani: Mosebetsi oa Sehlopha

Ho bolela'ng?

Lenyalo le phetseng hantle le sebetsa joaloka sefofane se hlophisitsoeng hantle: monna le mosali ba tšoana le mofofisi oa sefofane le motlatsi oa hae ba latela moralo o le mong. Ha mathata a hlaha, ha ba nahane feela ka bona, empa ba hlokomelana.

Seo Bibele e se buang: “Ha e sa le ba babeli, empa nama e le ’ngoe.” — Mattheu 19:6.

Lenyalo ha se leeto la motho a le mong. Hore le be le thabo, ho bohlokoa hore ka bobeli ba tsamaee hammoho, ba tšehetsane.

Hobaneng ho le bohlokoa?

Ha ho se na moea oa sehlopha, ngangisano e fetoha nyatso ’me mathata a manyenyane a hola. Empa ha banyalani ba sebetsa ka kutloano, ba batla tharollo ho e-na le ho qosa.

Ho sebetsa hammoho ho thibela monna le mosali hore ba se ke ba fetoha feela “ba lulang hammoho.” Ho e-na le hoo, ba fetoha balekane ba bophelo, ba kopane ho etsa liqeto tsa bohlokoa.

Seo u ka se etsang?

Ema ’me u nahane:

  • Na ke nka chelete eo ke e fumanang e le “ea ka feela”?

  • Na ke khona ho phomola ka ’nete feela ha ke le hōle le molekane oa ka?

  • Leha ke tseba hore monna kapa mosali oa ka o rata beng ka eena, na ke qoba ho kopana le bona?

Buisanang le e mong le e mong:

  • Ke libaka life tseo re seng re khona ho sebetsa hantle re le sehlopha?

  • Ke lintlha life tseo re ka ntlafatsang ho tsona?

  • Ke mehato efe ea sebele eo re lokelang ho e nka ho matlafatsa bonngoe ba rona?

Malebela a Sebetsang

  • Nahana hore lenyalo ke papali: ha le lule mahlakoreng a fapaneng, empa le lehlakoreng le le leng.

  • Fetola mohopolo “Ke ka etsa joang hore ke hlōle?” ka “Re ka etsa joang hore re hlōle ka bobeli?”.

  • Se ke oa leka ho paka hore na ke mang ea nepileng kapa ea fosahetseng. Sa bohlokoa ka ho fetisisa ke ho boloka khotso le bonngoe.

Seo Bibele e se buang: “Le se ke la batla lithahasello tsa lona feela, empa le lithahasello tsa ba bang.” — Bafilipi 2:3, 4.

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