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📝 Somali Af Soomaali, ma heli doonaa cadaalad adduunka?

 

📝 MAQAALKA 1# Maalin ma heli doonaa cadaalad adduunka?

Maalin ma heli doonaa cadaalad adduunka? Cadaalad-darro waa xaqiiqo aan ku aragno meelo badan. Kiisas dadka si aan cadaalad ahayn loo xidhay ama loo xukumay iyada oo aan maxkamad la gelin waxay muujinayaan sida nidaamka aadanaha u liito. Qof kasta oo cadaalad-darro la kulmay wuxuu isbarbardhigi karaa erayada Ayuub: “Waxaan qaylinayaa caawimaad, laakiin cadaalad ma jirto.” — Ayuub 19:7.

Si kastaba ha ahaatee, Kitaabka Quduuska ah wuxuu xaqiijinayaa in iman doonto waqti ay dhammaan heli doonaan cadaalad run ah. Intaa waxaa dheer, wuxuu horeba noogu siinayaa xoog aan ku wajahno cadaalad-darrada maanta.

Sababaha cadaalad-darrada

  • Is-jeclaysi: rabitaanno is-jeclaysi ah ayaa keena in dad badan si aan cadaalad ahayn ula dhaqmaan kuwa kale. (Yaquub 1:14, 15) Laakiin Ilaah wuxuu ina barayaa: “Qofna ha raadin faa’iidada naftiisa, laakiin tan dadka kale.” — 1 Korintos 10:24.

  • Aqoon la’aan: qaar waxay si aan cadaalad ahayn u dhaqmaan iyaga oo aan ogeyn. (Rooma 10:3) Waxaa ahayd aqoon la’aan in dad badan ay ka qayb qaateen cadaalad-darradii ugu weynayd taariikhda: dilkii Ciise Masiix. — Falimaha Rasuullada 3:15, 17.

  • Nidaamyada aadanaha oo liita: dowladaha, ganacsiga iyo diimaha waa inay cadaalad horumariyaan, laakiin waxay soo saaraan musuqmaasuq, sinnaan la’aan iyo dulqaad la’aan. Kitaabka Quduuska ah wuxuu muujinayaa in dadaallada aadanaha ee aan Ilaah lahayn ay had iyo jeer fashilmaan. — Wacdiyahii 8:9; Yeremyaah 10:23.

Ilaah ma ka xumaadaa cadaalad-darrada?

Haa. Wuxuu neceb yahay ficillada aan cadaalad ahayn: “Anigu, Yehowah, waxaan jeclahay cadaaladda; waxaan neceb ahay xatooyada iyo cadaalad-darrada.” — Ishacyaah 61:8. Hore, Ilaah wuxuu ku amray garsoorayaasha inay diidaan musuqmaasuqa oo ay difaacaan kuwa liita. — Sharciga Kunoqoshadiisa 16:18-20; Ishacyaah 10:1-3.

Ilaah ma baabi’in doonaa cadaalad-darrada?

Haa. Ciise Masiix, Ilaah wuxuu ku baabi’in doonaa dembiga, sababta cadaalad-darrada, wuxuuna ka dhigi doonaa dadka kuwo qumman. — Yooxanaa 1:29; Rooma 6:23. Wuxuu dejiyey Boqortooyo keeni doonta adduun cadaalad leh: “Boqor ayaa xukumi doona si qumman, oo amiirro ayaa xukumi doona si cadaalad ah.” — Ishacyaah 32:1; 2 Butros 3:13.

Noloshu sidee bay noqon doontaa adduunka cusub?

Cadaaladdu waxay keeni doontaa nabad iyo ammaan qof walba. — Ishacyaah 32:16-18. Ilaah wuxuu qiimeeyaa dhammaan dadka si siman, sidaas darteed ma jiri doonto xanuun, oohin ama xusuus cadaalad-darro. — Ishacyaah 65:17; Muujintii 21:3, 4.

Ma ku kalsoonaan karnaa ballanqaadkan?

Haa. Nebiyadii Kitaabka Quduuska ah hore ayay u rumoobeen waxayna muujinayaan in Kitaabka Quduuska ah la isku halayn karo. — Wacdiyahii 3:16; Ayuub 34:12; Sharciga Kunoqoshadiisa 32:4, 5.

Ma la dagaallami karnaa cadaalad-darrada hadda?

Kitaabka Quduuska ah wuxuu muujinayaa tusaalooyin dad iska difaacay cadaalad-darro, sida Bawlos oo racfaan u gudbiyey Qaysar. — Falimaha Rasuullada 25:8-12. Laakiin sidoo kale wuxuu barayaa in Boqortooyada Ilaah oo keliya ay keeni doonto cadaalad dhammaystiran. — Wacdiyahii 1:15.

Qoraallo Kitaabka Quduuska ah oo ka hadlaya cadaalad

  • “Waxaan arkay tan hoos qorraxda: meesha cadaaladda waxaa ka jiray shar.” — Wacdiyahii 3:16

  • “Run ahaantii Ilaah ma sameeyo wax xun; Qaadirka Kullina ma qalloociyo cadaaladda.” — Ayuub 34:12

  • “Dhagax — qumman waa wax kasta oo uu sameeyo, maxaa yeelay dhammaan jidadkiisu waa cadaalad.” — Sharciga Kunoqoshadiisa 32:4, 5

  • “Boqor ayaa xukumi doona si qumman, oo amiirro ayaa xukumi doona si cadaalad ah.” — Ishacyaah 32:1

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