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In English Help for the Family | Marriage How to Talk About Problems

Talking about problems is not always easy. Sometimes, instead of solving, the conversation can create more tension. This happens because men and women often have different communication styles. What you should know Women: usually prefer to talk about the issue before hearing a solution. Often, simply sharing feelings brings relief. Men: tend to look for quick solutions, because solving makes them feel helpful. Offering an answer is their way of showing support. The key is balance: listen carefully before suggesting any solution. What you can do Husband: practice active listening. Look into her eyes, don’t interrupt, and show you understand. Many times, your wife just needs to feel you are by her side. Wife: explain clearly what you expect. If you only want to be heard, say so. If you want a solution, ask for it. Both: remember that each has different needs. Dialogue improves when both are willing to compromise and understand each other. The right time Choosing the right moment i...
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📝 Chichewa,(Nyanja) → Malawi tsiku lina padzakhala chilungamo padziko lapansi?

 

📝 NKHANI 1# Kodi tsiku lina padzakhala chilungamo padziko lapansi?



Kodi tsiku lina padzakhala chilungamo padziko lapansi? Chilungamo chosowa ndi choonadi chomwe timachiona m'madera ambiri. Milandu ya anthu omwe amangidwa mosayenera kapena kuweruzidwa popanda mlandu imasonyeza momwe dongosolo la anthu limalephera. Aliyense amene wakumana ndi kusalungama angafanane ndi mawu a Yobu: “Ndikuyitana thandizo, koma palibe chilungamo.” — Yobu 19:7.

Komabe, Baibulo limatsimikizira kuti tsiku lidzafika pamene aliyense adzakhala ndi chilungamo chenicheni. Kuphatikiza apo, limatipatsa mphamvu kale kuti tithandane ndi kusalungama masiku ano.

Zifukwa za kusalungama

  • Kudzikonda: zofuna zodzikonda zimapangitsa anthu ambiri kuchita zinthu mosalungama. (Yakobo 1:14, 15) Mosiyana, Mulungu amatilangiza: “Palibe amene ayang'ane phindu lake, koma la ena.” — 1 Akorinto 10:24.

  • Kusadziwa: ena amachita mosalungama osazindikira. (Aroma 10:3) Ndi chifukwa cha kusadziwa kuti ambiri anatenga nawo mbali pa kusalungama kwakukulu kwambiri m'mbiri: kuphedwa kwa Yesu Khristu. — Machitidwe 3:15, 17.

  • Dongosolo la anthu lolephera: boma, malonda ndi zipembedzo ziyenera kulimbikitsa chilungamo, koma zimabweretsa ziphuphu, kusakwanira ndi kusamvana. Baibulo limasonyeza kuti khama la anthu popanda Mulungu limalephera nthawi zonse. — Mlaliki 8:9; Yeremiya 10:23.

Kodi Mulungu amasamala za kusalungama?

Inde. Iye amadana ndi machitidwe osalungama: “Ine, Yehova, ndimakonda chilungamo; ndimadana ndi kuba ndi kusalungama.” — Yesaya 61:8. M'mbuyomu, Mulungu anafuna kuti oweruza akane ziphuphu ndi kuteteza osauka. — Deuteronomo 16:18-20; Yesaya 10:1-3.

Kodi Mulungu adzachotsa kusalungama?

Inde. Kudzera mwa Yesu Khristu, Mulungu adzachotsa tchimo, chomwe ndi chifukwa cha kusalungama, ndipo adzapangitsa anthu kukhala abwino. — Yohane 1:29; Aroma 6:23. Iye anayika Ufumu umene udzabweretse dziko lolungama: “Mfumu idzalamulira mwachilungamo, ndipo akalonga adzalamulira mwachilungamo.” — Yesaya 32:1; 2 Petulo 3:13.

Moyo udzakhala bwanji m’dziko latsopano?

Chilungamo chidzabweretsa mtendere ndi chitetezo kwa aliyense. — Yesaya 32:16-18. Mulungu amaona anthu onse mofanana, choncho sipadzakhala ululu, kulira kapena kukumbukira kusalungama. — Yesaya 65:17; Chivumbulutso 21:3, 4.

Kodi tingakhulupirire lonjezo ili?

Inde. Zolosera za m’Baibulo zidakwaniritsidwa kale ndipo zimasonyeza kuti Baibulo ndi lodalirika. — Mlaliki 3:16; Yobu 34:12; Deuteronomo 32:4, 5.

Kodi tiyenera kulimbana ndi kusalungama tsopano?

Baibulo limasonyeza zitsanzo za anthu omwe adadziteteza ku kusalungama, monga Paulo, amene anapempha kwa Kaisara. — Machitidwe 25:8-12. Koma limaphunzitsanso kuti Ufumu wa Mulungu wokha ndiwo udzabweretse chilungamo chokwanira. — Mlaliki 1:15.

Malemba a Baibulo okhudza chilungamo

  • “Ndinaonanso izi pansi pa dzuwa: pamalo a chilungamo panali choipa.” — Mlaliki 3:16

  • “Zoona ndi zakuti Mulungu sachita zoipa; Wamphamvuyonse sachita mosalungama.” — Yobu 34:12

  • “Mwala — zonse zimene amachita ndi zabwino, chifukwa njira zake zonse ndi zolungama.” — Deuteronomo 32:4, 5

  • “Mfumu idzalamulira mwachilungamo, ndipo akalonga adzalamulira mwachilungamo.” — Yesaya 32:1

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