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In English Help for the Family | Marriage How to Talk About Problems

Talking about problems is not always easy. Sometimes, instead of solving, the conversation can create more tension. This happens because men and women often have different communication styles. What you should know Women: usually prefer to talk about the issue before hearing a solution. Often, simply sharing feelings brings relief. Men: tend to look for quick solutions, because solving makes them feel helpful. Offering an answer is their way of showing support. The key is balance: listen carefully before suggesting any solution. What you can do Husband: practice active listening. Look into her eyes, don’t interrupt, and show you understand. Many times, your wife just needs to feel you are by her side. Wife: explain clearly what you expect. If you only want to be heard, say so. If you want a solution, ask for it. Both: remember that each has different needs. Dialogue improves when both are willing to compromise and understand each other. The right time Choosing the right moment i...

💞 Thuso bakeng sa Lelapa | Lenyalong — U ka Thaba Joang Lenyalong — Bala Lentsoe la Molimo


 💞 Thuso bakeng sa Lelapa | Lenyalong — Letoto la 1 U ka Thaba Joang Lenyalong — Bala Lentsoe la Molimo

Ho bala Bibele ho ka thusa monna le mosali ho boloka khotso lenyalong.

Molimo o ka u thusa ho ba le lenyalo le thabileng

“Ea ba entseng ho tloha qalong o ile a ba etsa e le monna le mosali.” — Matheu 19:4

Jehova o ile a etsa lenyalo la pele ha a ne a bōpa mosali ’me a mo tlisa ho Adama. Adama o ile a thaba hoo a ileng a re:

“Qetellong, enoa ke lesapo la masapo a ka le nama ea nama ea ka.” — Genese 2:22, 23

Joalo ka ha ho ne ho le qalong, Jehova o ntse a batla hore banyalani ba thabe.

Leha ho na le lerato la ’nete, monna le mosali ba tobana le mathata.

“Empa haeba u ka nyala, ha u etse sebe. Leha ho le joalo, ba nyalang ba tla ba le mathata bophelong.” — 1 Bakorinthe 7:28

Bibele e fana ka likeletso tse matlafatsang lenyalo le lelapa.

“Litaelo tsa Jehova li nepahetse; li thabisa pelo.” — Pesaleme 19:8-11

1. Amohela karolo eo Jehova a u fileng eona

“Monna ke hlooho ea lelapa.” — Baefese 5:23

Monna o lokela ho hlokomela mosali ka mosa le seriti.

“Banna, tsoelang pele ho rata basali ba lona, joalokaha Kreste a ratile phutheho.” — Baefese 5:25-29

Mosali o lokela ho hlompha monna ka botebo le ho mo tšehetsa mosebetsing oa hae.

“Mosali o lokela ho ba le tlhompho e tebileng bakeng sa monna oa hae.” — Baefese 5:33

💡 Tlhahiso ea boikoetliso: Botsa molekane oa hao hore na u ka ba molekane ea molemo joang ’me u ikemisetse ho mamela le ho etsa.

2. Bontša thahasello ea ’nete

“Le se ke la etsa letho ka tlholisano kapa ka boikhohomoso, empa ka boikokobetso le nahaniseng ba bang ba le betere ho feta lona.” — Bafilipi 2:3, 4

Mantsoe a mosa le liketso tsa lerato li matlafatsa lenyalo.

“Ho na le mantsoe a hlabang joaloka sabole, empa leleme la ba bohlale le tlisa pholiso.” — Liproverbia 12:18

💡 Tlhahiso ea boikoetliso: Pele u sebetsana le litaba tse thata, rapela Molimo ’me u kope khutso le bohlale.

3. Nahanang ka sehlopha

“Ka lebaka lena, monna o tla tlohela ntate le ’mè oa hae, ’me a khomarele mosali oa hae, ’me ba tla fetoha nama e le ’ngoe.” — Matheu 19:5

Lenyalo ke tšebelisano. Leha ho na le maikutlo a fapaneng, banyalani ba lokela ho batla bonngoe.

“Batla likeletso tse ntle ’me u tla atleha.” — Liproverbia 20:18

💡 Tlhahiso ea boikoetliso: Arolelanang maikutlo ho feta maikutlo feela ’me le buisane pele le etsa liqeto.

E-ba oa sebele le oa tšepo

“Etsoe o tseba hantle hore na re entsoe joang, o hopola hore re lerōle.” — Pesaleme 103:14

Ha ho lenyalo le phethahetseng. Ho ananela litšoaneleho tse ntle tsa molekane le ho tšepa melao-motheo ea Bibele ho matlafatsa bonngoe.

“Re se ke ra khathala ho etsa se molemo, hobane ka nako e loketseng re tla kotula, haeba re sa nyahame.” — Bagalata 6:9

Ipotse:

  • Na molekane oa ka o ikutloa hore ke mo tsotella ho feta ka nna?

  • Ke entse eng kajeno ho bontša hore ke rata le ho hlompha molekane oa ka?

Qetello ea Letoto la 1 Sena ke pheletso ea Letoto la 1. ➡️ Sehloohong se latelang re tla bona hore na Bibele e re’ng ka lenyalo. Melao-motheo ea Bibele e ka thusa banyalani ho qoba le ho hlōla mathata.

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