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In English Help for the Family | Marriage How to Talk About Problems

Talking about problems is not always easy. Sometimes, instead of solving, the conversation can create more tension. This happens because men and women often have different communication styles. What you should know Women: usually prefer to talk about the issue before hearing a solution. Often, simply sharing feelings brings relief. Men: tend to look for quick solutions, because solving makes them feel helpful. Offering an answer is their way of showing support. The key is balance: listen carefully before suggesting any solution. What you can do Husband: practice active listening. Look into her eyes, don’t interrupt, and show you understand. Many times, your wife just needs to feel you are by her side. Wife: explain clearly what you expect. If you only want to be heard, say so. If you want a solution, ask for it. Both: remember that each has different needs. Dialogue improves when both are willing to compromise and understand each other. The right time Choosing the right moment i...
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💞 THUSO BAKENG SA LELAPA | Lenyalong – Seo Bibele e se buang ka lenyalo

 


💞 THUSO BAKENG SA LELAPA | Lenyalong – Letoto la 2 Seo Bibele e se buang ka lenyalo

Morero oa lenyalo

Ho tloha qalong ea batho, Molimo o ile a theha lenyalo e le kopano e khethehileng pakeng tsa monna le mosali, ka sepheo sa ho theha lelapa le ho phela ka kutloano (Genese 1:27, 28; 2:18, 24). Tokisetso ena ea bomolimo e entsoe ho tlisa thabo le botsitso.

Ponahalo ea Molimo ka lenyalo

Lenyalo ke kopano e sa feleng, ’me Molimo o lebella hore monna le mosali ba tšepahane ho fihlela ba phela (Mareka 10:9).

Bibele ha e amohele mekhoa e kang lenyalo la basali ba bangata, likamano tse ka thōko ho mohlala o behiloeng ke Molimo kapa banyalani ba phelang hammoho ntle le boitlamo bo tiileng (1 Bakorinthe 6:9; 1 Bathesalonika 4:3).

Jesu o ile a matlafatsa mohlala ona ha a ruta hore lenyalo le lokela ho latela mohlala oa pele o entsoeng ke Molimo (Mareka 10:6-8).

Karohano le tlhalo

Bibele e khothalletsa banyalani ho rarolla mathata a bona ho e-na le ho arohana (1 Bakorinthe 7:10).

Lebaka le le leng la ’nete la tlhalo, ho ea ka Mangolo, ke bofebe (Matheu 19:9). Ntle le moo, leha ho ka ba le karohano, ha ho e mong oa bona ea lokolohileng ho nyala hape (Matheu 5:32; 1 Bakorinthe 7:11).

Lenyalong la molao le tumello ea Molimo

Molimo o lebella hore bahlanka ba hae ba hlomphe balaoli le melao ea naha. Ho ngolisa lenyalo ho latela molao ho bontša tlhompho ho balaoli le ho ’Mopi ka boeena, ea bonang lenyalo e le boitlamo bo tebileng le bo sa feleng (Tito 3:1).

Boikarabelo lenyalong

Ka bobeli: Monna le mosali ba lokela ho tšoarana ka lerato, tlhompho le botšepehi, ba hlokomela litlhoko tsa e mong le e mong, ’me haeba ba na le bana, ba ikarabelle hammoho ho ba hōlisa (Baefese 5:33; 1 Bakorinthe 7:3; Baheberu 13:4).

Monna: O bitsoa “hlooho ea mosali” ka kutloisiso ea ho etella pele ka lerato, ho netefatsa boiketlo ba ’mele, maikutlo le moea oa lelapa, a ananela le ho mamela mosali oa hae (Baefese 5:23; Bakolose 3:19; Liproverbia 31:11).

Mosali: O lokela ho hlompha karolo ea monna, a sebelisane le eena le ho tšehetsa boetapele ba hae, a rorisoa ka ho phetha karolo ena hantle (Baefese 5:33; Genese 2:18; Liproverbia 31:10).

Na ho ba le bana ho tlamehile?

Che. Le hoja Molimo a ile a laela bahlanka ba bang nakong e fetileng hore ba be le bana (Genese 1:28; 9:1), taelo ena ha e sebetse ho Bakreste. Jesu ha ho mohla a kileng a hloka hore balateli ba hae e be batsoali; ke qeto ea botho ea banyalani ka mong.

Kamoo Bibele e matlafatsang lenyalo

Melao-motheo ea Bibele e thusa banyalani ho holisa:

  • Lerato la ’nete (1 Bakorinthe 13:4-7)

  • Tlhompho e kopanetsoeng (Baroma 12:10)

  • Mamello le tšoarelo (Baefese 4:2, 3; 1 Petrose 4:8)

  • Botšepehi le boitlamo (Mareka 10:9; Sefela sa Solomone 8:7)

  • Mosebetsi oa sehlopha (Moeklesia 4:9)

  • Puisano e ntle le ho mamela ka hloko (Jakobo 1:19)

Litemana tsa Bibele ka lenyalo

  • Liproverbia 18:22: Ea fumanang mosali ea molemo o fumana ntho ea bohlokoa.

  • Malakia 2:15: Molimo o batla botšepehi le tlhompho lenyalong, le ka mor’a lilemo tse ngata.

  • Mareka 10:9: Seo Molimo a se kopantseng, ha ho motho ea lokelang ho se arohanya.

  • Baheberu 13:4: Lenyalong le lokela ho hlomphuoa ke bohle.

  • 1 Bakorinthe 7:28: Lenyalong ho na le liphephetso, empa le ka matlafatsoa ka boiteko bo kopanetsoeng.

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