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In English Help for the Family | Marriage How to Talk About Problems

Talking about problems is not always easy. Sometimes, instead of solving, the conversation can create more tension. This happens because men and women often have different communication styles. What you should know Women: usually prefer to talk about the issue before hearing a solution. Often, simply sharing feelings brings relief. Men: tend to look for quick solutions, because solving makes them feel helpful. Offering an answer is their way of showing support. The key is balance: listen carefully before suggesting any solution. What you can do Husband: practice active listening. Look into her eyes, don’t interrupt, and show you understand. Many times, your wife just needs to feel you are by her side. Wife: explain clearly what you expect. If you only want to be heard, say so. If you want a solution, ask for it. Both: remember that each has different needs. Dialogue improves when both are willing to compromise and understand each other. The right time Choosing the right moment i...
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English, YOUNG PEOPLE ASK; How can you overcome shyness?

 

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK 

How can you overcome shyness?

The bad news

Shyness can make you miss out on good friendships and new experiences.

The good news

Being shy isn’t always negative. It can help you think before speaking, be more observant, and listen carefully to others.

The best news

Shyness doesn’t last forever. Just because you’re shy now doesn’t mean you’ll always be shy. With effort, you can learn to overcome it.

What are you afraid of?

Shyness can make you freeze at the thought of talking face-to-face. That may leave you feeling isolated, like being stuck in a dark room. But when you “turn on the light” and face your fears, you’ll see they aren’t as frightening as they seemed.

  • “I don’t know what to say.” Fact: People don’t remember your exact words as much as how they felt talking to you. Show interest in what others say and listen attentively.

  • “People will think I’m boring.” Fact: People will always have opinions, whether you’re shy or not. The best way forward is to let them see the real you.

  • “What if I say something silly?” Fact: Everyone makes mistakes. If you say something wrong, it’s a chance to show humility and honesty.

💡 Tip: Texting may feel easier, but true friendships grow stronger in person. Psychologist Sherry Turkle wrote: “Only when we see people’s faces and hear their voices do we truly connect with one another.”

Tips to overcome shyness

  • Don’t compare yourself to others. You don’t need to be outgoing, but you can manage your shyness to enjoy friendships more.

    “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.” — Galatians 6:4

  • Be observant. Watch how confident people interact. What works? What doesn’t? Which qualities could you imitate?

    “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17

  • Ask questions. People like to share opinions. Asking questions is a great way to start conversations and shift the focus away from yourself. Planning topics ahead of time can also reduce anxiety.

    “Not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” — Philippians 2:4

What other young people say

  • Kelsey: “Start small, like a smile or a simple ‘Hi, how are you?’ You’ll be surprised how well it works.”

  • Robin: “Everyone has something interesting to share. If you don’t open up, people won’t discover your qualities.”

  • Veronica: “Make others feel comfortable and they’ll like you, even if you’re shy. A genuine smile helps a lot.”

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