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🧠 Psychology, Psychoanalysis and the Neuroscience of Money

Money and Self-Esteem: How Finances Shape Identity and Social Relations

Exclusive Comprehensive Guide from the Blog of Serafim Don Manuel

Money transcends its role as an economic resource. It is a psychological, cultural and social symbol, capable of structuring self-esteem, individual identity and family bonds. The way each person manages their finances not only reveals behavioural patterns but also reflects unconscious beliefs, internalised values and social expectations.

Neuroscience: The Brain and the Perception of Value

Neuroscientific research demonstrates that money activates brain circuits related to reward, motivation and social status. The prefrontal cortex is involved in financial decision-making, while the dopaminergic system reinforces the sense of pleasure and control associated with monetary gains.

Recent studies indicate that financial losses activate the same brain regions linked to physical pain, explaining why debt or financial setbacks can generate intense emotional suffering. The brain interprets resource scarcity as a survival threat, which may trigger chronic anxiety and existential insecurity.

Psychology: Self-Esteem and Finances

Self-esteem is deeply connected to perceptions of competence, autonomy and personal worth. Financial stability reinforces the sense of efficacy, while economic difficulties may be internalised as failure or inadequacy.

Many individuals carry unconscious family beliefs about money (“I am not good with finances”, “wealth is not for me”), which shape identity and limit potential. Consumption is often used as a symbolic affirmation tool: acquiring certain products or brands can function as an attempt to reinforce self-esteem and project a desired social identity.

Psychoanalysis: The Unconscious Symbolism of Money

In psychoanalysis, money is understood as a signifier of desire, power and recognition. Spending may represent an unconscious search for approval or an attempt to fill emotional gaps.

Freud associated money with bodily symbols and dynamics of control (retention or release), explaining why saving or spending carries profound unconscious meanings. Debt may be experienced as internalised guilt, while accumulating wealth may symbolise the pursuit of immortality or absolute control.

Money, Self-Esteem and Social Identity

Identity is constructed not only individually but also collectively. Money directly influences how we are perceived: status, purchasing power and lifestyle shape the way others define us.

In consumer societies, lack of resources may generate social invisibility, profoundly affecting self-esteem. Conversely, excessive wealth may create an artificial identity disconnected from inner values, leading to existential crises and feelings of emptiness.

Less Explored Aspects

  • Traumatic financial memory: childhood experiences of scarcity may mark adult identity and perpetuate insecurity.
  • Financial self-esteem: depends not only on resources but on the subjective perception of control.
  • Money as emotional language: gifts, debts and investments may unconsciously communicate affection, power or belonging.
  • Invisible social comparison: even without full awareness, the brain constantly compares our financial situation with that of others.

Balancing Finances and Self-Esteem

  • Emotional financial education: understanding that money does not define personal worth.
  • Reprogramming beliefs: replacing inherited unconscious narratives with healthier and more functional ones.
  • Separating identity from consumption: recognising that self-esteem does not depend on brands or status.
  • Building internal security: developing skills, values and emotional bonds independent of financial resources.

Conclusion

Money exerts a profound influence on self-esteem and identity, functioning as a psychological and symbolic mirror that reflects insecurities, desires and values. Understanding these hidden mechanisms is essential for building a more balanced relationship with finances and, above all, with oneself. Neuroscience, psychology and psychoanalysis provide powerful tools to decipher this phenomenon and promote individual and collective well-being.

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