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🧠 Psychology, Psychoanalysis and Neuroscience of Money

The Brain and Saving: Why It Is Difficult to Put Money Aside

Exclusive guide from Serafim Don Manuel’s Blog

Saving money may appear straightforward, yet in practice it is one of humanity’s greatest challenges. The difficulty lies not only in discipline but in deep brain mechanisms, emotions, and unconscious meanings attached to money.

Neuroscience of saving

The human brain evolved to prioritise immediate rewards. Structures such as the nucleus accumbens and the prefrontal cortex are in constant conflict: the former seeks instant pleasure, while the latter attempts to plan for the future. This explains why saving is so hard.

Research shows that saving is perceived by the brain as a present “loss”. Putting money aside activates circuits similar to those of pain, as it means giving up immediate consumption. This little-known detail explains why many feel discomfort when saving.

Psychology of saving difficulties

Psychologically, saving requires self-control and the ability to delay gratification. Anxiety and insecurity reduce this capacity. Under stress, the brain seeks quick relief, making saving nearly impossible.

Another factor is the present bias: we value the present far more than the future. This explains why many prefer immediate pleasures over long-term goals such as retirement or emergencies.

Psychoanalysis: the symbolism of saving

In psychoanalysis, money is not merely material but a symbol of desire, power, and security. Saving may unconsciously be experienced as deprivation or even symbolic castration: “I cannot have what I want now.”

Conversely, saving may represent control and mastery. Those who struggle to save often carry unconscious histories of scarcity, fear of loss, or a need for immediate affirmation.

Little-known aspects

  • The brain reacts to saving as if it were a threat to immediate pleasure.
  • Saving activates pain-related areas, while spending activates reward-related areas.
  • Financial trauma in childhood can unconsciously sabotage saving habits.
  • Digital environments reinforce instant gratification, making saving even harder.

Training the brain to save

  • Turn saving into a reward: link it to pleasurable goals (holidays, achievements).
  • Automate: use direct debits to reduce the emotional weight of saving decisions.
  • Visualise the future: clear mental images of financial goals increase motivation.
  • Reframe beliefs: reflect on the meaning of money and its link to identity and security.

Conclusion

Saving is difficult because it involves a conflict between neuroscience of reward, psychology of emotions, and psychoanalytic symbolism. The brain prefers spending, but habits can be trained and saving redefined. Understanding these hidden mechanisms is the first step towards financial freedom.

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